Can dogs ๐Ÿถ be scared of your presence?

Do you see the tiny little teeth in the pic above?

Well, you must be amazed to know that it was thrown out of the gate. It’s naughty.

As it waits to return back to its favourite place, I caught a pic of it.

Its ๐Ÿ˜ด tired and my clicks irritated ๐Ÿ˜ค it.

Can dogs be scared of your presence?

When humans can get scared and you can excuse them, why can’t you excuse dogs. Only if you know their nature, you can.

So, if you see though it is scared, it is still courteous enough, trying to shoo me off, by only baring its tiny, almost invisible front set of teeth.

But, then I keep clicking and irritate it to such an extent, that it actually begins ๐Ÿƒ running behind me.

In 99% of the cases, this is the situation. You irritate dogs ๐Ÿถ often enough for them to chase the hell out of you.

Now, next step.

Do you chase it back or do you run ๐Ÿƒ away?

Let me tell you, either ways it would feel more irritated ๐Ÿ˜ค and prefer chasing you.

So, once you realise they are about to chase you, hold your breath. Remember just one โ˜๏ธ thing, do not go by its size.

Do the following instead,

1) Sing a song if you are good ๐Ÿ˜Š at it.

2) Try to talk to the dog ๐Ÿถ in a commanding voice. It would calm down. Do not scold, it offends them since they too, like humans understand that scolding is a form used for humiliating others.

3) Talk softly yet command it as you wish. No matter you have a chihuahua or a Tibetan lion ๐Ÿฆ mastiff, it would start moving away from you towards its own journey.

 

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Do dogs ๐Ÿถ understand our actions?

Dogs ๐Ÿถ can also be tube lights. ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜

Now, ๐Ÿ‘‹ hello all! This evening, I came across a light moment. This involves a kid and a dog. A street dog, a cur, to be precise. Do dogs understand our actions? We need to see that. This mall incident may be an attempt towards understanding this small psychological glitche of a dog. As a car ๐Ÿš— turned into the gully (the narrow turn from the main road), this little kid on his bicycle ๐Ÿšฒ spots that the dog was resting almost on the middle of this gully. The car ๐Ÿš— is in the turning, the dog in the middle of this shabby gully and this kid on his bicycle ๐Ÿšต is trying to balance himself on it as he is taking an evening relaxing ๐Ÿ˜Žย drive. This kid voices his concern, “shoo..shoo.” He tried shooing this poor creature so that the slow car does not hit ๐Ÿ‘‹ him hard. But, this dog ๐Ÿถ pays no attention to such shooing, since it is always used to such shooing. He keeps shooing. He keeps shooing as long as possible. When almost, at an arm’s length, the car ๐Ÿš— ย does care to honk. Only then, does the dog ๐Ÿถ understand that this was an alarm ๐Ÿšจ ๐Ÿ”” bell, and it would have to move farther from it, on order to save itself. Slowly, it shifted and moved closer to one of the walls. Here, as it stood, it suddenly realized, that the guy on the bicycle was actually trying to help.ย ๐Ÿ˜Ž What it did in the end of this story was this tubelight kind of an action, it slowly raised its tail, wagged a silent ๐Ÿ˜Š thank you. The animals are very much like us, you just need to give up your greed and understand this point. Once we can embrace these beautiful creatures they can also help us live. It’s a process, called symbiosis. It’s a process called co-existence. We can together make it beautiful and flourishing, rather than degrading and destroying.

Real friends, reel friends, real friends, reel fiends

Do you know who is what in your life? Have you figured it out?

Scroll down, this might help, if you are seeking to know more.

Do you know yours? Have you figured out?

Friends or fiends and real or reel?

Hey guys! ๐Ÿ‘‹ย 

Do you know what I want to discuss today?

Real friends, reel friends, real friends, reel fiends.

Now, have you ever, wondered that English has always been termed as a funny ๐Ÿ˜‚ language.ย Friends or fiends and real or reel?

๐Ÿ˜‰ Don’t worry, I won’t ask you to read Kubla Khan, if you have read the heading already. Neither do I discuss the beautiful poem. Of course, you can go back and read it once, because it is indeed a beautiful poem.

Well, there is a word called friend in the English dictionary, “FRIEND.”

There is also another word in English dictionary called “FIEND.”

Do you know the meaning of both.

Friend can mean a lot of things to you and a wide array of relationships are covered with the quoted words, “friends.”

However, in the contrary, fiend has one universal meaning, it means an enemy. Yes, the degree of enmity may vary, but still an enemy cannot Ben divined by any other broad relationship status.

So, the only difference between the two words, is just the word, “R

Now, “R” as we quote it, in our messages and wats app, denotes the word, “are.”

What do you remember or immediately assume the meaning of the word, “are.”

It means, an assurance of some kind, if you see it in a way.

We are equal, unequal, tall, short etc.

You are ๐Ÿ˜Š good, bad, wise, stupid etc.

Friends or fiends and real or reel?

If you, dissect further FRIEND, is FRI-END.

You can consider it as the โ˜๏ธ with whom you spend your weekend orย 

You can consider the one whom you can fry till the end and even the next the person comes back to you. ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜‚.

So, guys, thus, such depth lies in the two simple words, friends and fiends.

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But, the takehome message is, “there is no much difference between a friend and a fiend. You have to be razor sharp, who does what, who should, or can be your friends.

Well, if you have not figured out, you can read this, mull over it, and figure it out.

Well, I have figured them out, how about you?

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Can chasing dreams lead us anywhere other than depression?

 

Does chasing your dreams lead you astray into a state of depression or leads you away from it?

1) The first question to consider,

Do dreams matter?

Or, they lead us astray into a state of rejection and depression?

Can chasing dream lead us anywhere other than depression?

I think and completely feel, they do.

In fact, every happiness, joy, sadness and pain is linked directly or indirectly to our dreams.

This whole world is rather an extension of the dreams spread through the minds of millions. If we did not have a mind, we would never, have had, this world.

In fact, if you look into this world, dreams are the only dots, which innumerable humans keep dreaming, fulfilling and some humans who join the dots.

The whole world is drawn around a single man’s dream or often, many men’s dream.

Look at any organisation or anything great ๐Ÿ‘ or gigantic around, or look ๐Ÿ‘€ at any small effort. It is always someone’s dreams.

2) Why do our dreams often not come true?

Now, what happens if you dream the wrong dreams? Dreams which do not fit a social structure or a social pattern, being practiced at that point of time.

Well well, often this is one reason why they don’t take the desired shape.

Sometimes, available resources, matter, sometimes life itself matters, since, it can get impacted by millions of factors. I am sure every human, above the age of ten, has at least, one broken dream to recount.

3) A story

“There was once an old man, to whom people came for job counselling. Now, this man was doing a business of making pillows, in a time when the whole world was preparing for war. As a result it did not work for him. As his business failed and his funds came down, the man was very depressed, this man thus saw no harm in visiting the old man. He then, went to see the old man, in hope of some good counsel.

“In a land of wars, you should be making blades and spades instead of pillows. So, as you, see, when the world is dreaming war, there are millions who earn by selling the dream of wars.

“Very few can dream of peace, even at such times of wars, since this signifies going upstream and that’s difficult.” Such is the human nature.” said the ๐Ÿ‘ด old man.

4) How to think?

Now, this is how our world is constantly changing shape and size.

If you look at it, every human has a dream, but, unfortunately they are like those balloons which we chase. We often, are however, unaware of whether a dream would affect us or not, initially.

But, slowly, as it takes shape, we see that dreams make up our lives, and also can break our lives.

There are millions of dreams which are being broken every single day. Some people, unable to tackle its impact, take up their own lives or take up others lives.

Some, people however are gutsy enough to know that often you are unable to catch a balloon at one shot, many shots are often required to catch it.

Failures can either lead to a depressed state of mind or it can also lead you to new directions.

People who are well, at analysing as to why they failed, instead of sitting and brooding at the mere thought of failure often succeed.

So, basically, if you want to succeed, you have to analyse what things went wrong, and if possible, you got to correct them.

There is nothing called failure in this world. There is only alignment.

If you can align your thoughts and actions to the choices you made, there is a chance that you would succeed.

Disclaimer– This formulae cannot be applied to, however, love. Love is the only true magic in this world. How you love, whom you love, why you love, when you love and who you love, is a dimension which opens up, and when it does, none of the laws applicable to this Earth works anywhere else.

5) Can chasing dreams lead us anywhere?

So, now we know that when dreams are everything then why should we not chase it? Since, chasing them Ian the only way to ensure whether we are right or wrong about ourselves. Thus, chasing dreams lead us anywhere?

Initially, when we begin, our lives, none of the balloons ๐ŸŽˆ are ours but, slowly, we begin ๐Ÿฑ catching them and as we do, we do, get hold of some, for sure.

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Overthinking of life in today’s world. But, does it help?

Well, well.

Overthinking is a tool which is used mostly by all, as I have observed, except my Dad ๐Ÿ™ƒ.

Overthinking of life in this world ๐ŸŒŽ is quite a common practice, but how much does it help you?

It helps only when it is used as a tool.

What kind of tool? Well, lets see it.

1) An author’s weapon

Thoughts ๐Ÿ’ญ are such a challenge to an author or writer. I think ๐Ÿ’ญ every author fears only, but one โ˜๏ธ thing. What is it? Do you know?

Complete cessation of thought ๐Ÿ’ญ production process.

Thoughts become words after application of appropriate filters and a writer earns from it.

If Thoughts die โ˜๏ธ fine day, there will be no writers at all.

Thus, overthinking and dissecting a thought to produce ten others is a trick they apply to survive.

2) A poor man’s fear

A poor man is scared ๐Ÿ˜ณ to think even his day sometimes, leave alone overthinking. He neither has stamina, nor utility to do so.

3) A rich man’s confusion

A rich man can overthink since he has all the time. But, often he doesn’t know which string of thoughts are most faithful. Thus, leaving all Thoughts and sticking to one flow which seems appropriate to him is what he prefers to go with.

4) A stout man’s time waster

A stout man can achieve everything using his ๐Ÿ‘Š and does not require ๐Ÿ’ญ much. So, he also prefers often to stick to the tricks, he knows can make him survive in the world.

5) An ordinary man’s ๐Ÿ˜ก madness

An ordinary man is a plain thinker. He doesn’t know much. So, he prefers to think that overthinking is just a madman’s hobby. He avoids it and suppresses it a sense much as possible.

To add on, all these above points can be a negative ๐Ÿ‘Ž trigger for many, thus helping depression set in, sometimes.

1) The first type can be depressed if they can’t overthink. Depression cause.

2) Second type is scared ๐Ÿ˜ณ of consequences and hence overthinking can be depressing.

3) Being unable to judge as to which chain to continue on, a wrong chain can lead to experiencing severe depression.

4) A stout man is healthier when not thinking much. Thus, he isn’t wasting time when he is overthinking and time wasted can trigger a feeling of uselessness and thus leads one on the path of depression.

5) An ordinary man is mad when unwanted thoughts wade across his mind. He gets mad at it and hence avoids it. Being unable to avoid it, they get a string of reactions which again lead the man on the same path.

Hope you have some more thoughts on this.

Writer’s intent

I would like to take this opportunity to bare my soul on a topic.

Just like films made are often inspired by someone or some event or something.

Similarly writing is an author’s attempt to understand a particular topic.

Styles of writing may vary.

1) Aggressive

2) Compassionate

3) Narrative

4) Argumentative

5) Descriptive

6) Deceptive

7) Realistic

8) Imaginative

It is an author attempting to know and find a grip on a topic, a connection with the audience. Often, it is inspired by real life that we see around us and in an attempt to understand it, we might mention something relevant to reality.

Thus, no human should consider it to be a thought of an author rather, should consider it as a thought process. Since, thoughts like our lives are a constantly changing process.

The only constant is change, as we all know.

Good and light to all.

Coexistence!!

Coexistence of a single species in a limited ๐Ÿš€!!

Coexistence of single species in this limited resourced world. What do we understand by it?

There are many moments in life when I have tried analysing what true coexistence would be?

If true existence is a one sided word, true coexistence would be a two sided word. We have to exist, and also let others exist.

Sometimes, this leads to slight confusions. Why? Since there are so many people and you might hurt one or the other, if people are taking you too seriously. In the sense, if they feel, that there is a comment or a statement which hurts their feelings and opinions.

Well, in Coexistence of a single species in this limited resourced world,ย I felt, we have to keep a distance. ย I would like to call it a measurable and respectable distance. Each has to respect it and also not cross the barriers. We all have choices.ย 

My choices have to be taken seriously ๐Ÿ˜’ in order to take make me consider their views seriously. Now, first move should be from the society and not from the single individual. Choices of a human are solely ruled by the spirit of that human and hence, ignoring a spirit is same as ignoring the person. Forcing the person to do something against his/her wishes is crossing this thin line.

R.N Tagore says, “If nobody is willing to walk with you (meaning your choices) then prefer to walk alone.”

I live in a society also. Thus, as long as I am a part of this society, I would be expecting that the society embraces my thoughts, choices, likes and dislikes. If I get this opportunity, given that my choices does not harm anybody else in the process, I would be equally interested in promoting that very society.

Thus, if coexistence of single species in this limited resourced world. What do we understand by it? I live in a society which is constantly competing with my growth, by spreading tough, extravagant ordeals in order to suppress me, then very obviously ๐Ÿ™„ we would no longer want that society to be a part of us.ย 

Note: Please note that the word “I” is used for illustrative purposes.

Rollercoasterrideinlife and Depression and woman

IV) Few lessons:

Please remember these few lessons to stop yourself from getting depressed :

1) You never believe what they say. You are important, remember. This will keep you away from depression. Often, the human subconscious can get into such a state, if your mind is weak. Check the film Flightplan. Its a perfect example of how much conspiracy is often required to drive another human into a belief that others want you to think is true. You have to be like the mother who could use logical reasoning and hold onto her own experiences and beliefs. The reason as to why she could rescue her daughter in the end.

2) Remember that each incident teaches you a lesson. In my case I had only seen the good and helping nature of people, fighting people, harmful people, but this certain variety had come to my personal life very less. I needed to know these variety and their power to ensure that I would be able to live considering every form of living. This will keep you away from depression.

3) You need not forget such people, you need not hate them, you need not harm them, you need not strike a deal with them. If some of them apologize or even if they do not apologize, forgive them anyways but don’t ever consider them in your life.

4) Like in my case, when i used yo go to that place, I used to recall people wise the harms they intended and inflicted and what suffering or damage I could have gone through. Even if you repeat the lessons you learned remember that is all you should do and, do not react to them or their actions in any which ways.

5) Remember through you God is showing them your kind exists and the strength and weaknesses of your ways of living and through them God is showing you their strength and weaknesses.

6) Often even if you are just remembering those events, or just discussing it with people you are most comfortable with, the people if they somehow understand you are discussing them, they might feel good, narcissistic tendency, so they try to pretend a lot of things. Don’t start explaining or denying the fact, unless you are good enough to play around bad points.

Just be calm and soon you would again be doing your work, so they cannot overpower you. Give up thoughts and fears.

7) Last thing, do not try to become like them, if that means you have to go through discussions innumerable times with your friends and families, bring your horror levels low through discussions.

8) Choose in between what all things you are good at and move to those,ย  away from the madding crowd. If you ever meet such people on the road again, you know for sure that they cannot do the same thing to you because this time you walk down the road with a book of life called experience.

Remember they are just playing the role of bullies, immature fanatics often, trying to trample you down since they cannot like the way you are, and they cannot let you flourish because if you do so then they would feel bad and worthless.

To keep up their worth, they try to bring you down. So, they try to attack everything they consider valuable or know the value of.

Those include

Money

Character

Health

V) So, friends decide and look into each event very closely.

1) Fight your demons which try to join them making you weak. Subjugate those. Yfi

2) Evoke their goodness since every human has it, preventing them from bringing any major harm to you.

3) Trust that these three are not the cornerstones alone. But, yes don’t let them have it all.

In China once a thief entered a home of a saint. The saint asked him to take everything and not to disturb him in his prayers. So the thief took all and had to leave back the hut for the saint.

So, you should also try to keep the hut in this battle. Remember if you are belonging to a certain pole, you will meet more of the opposite pole.

In Bible there are few verses which says that the stronger you are, the worser you encounter from opposite end.

Have you ever seen Captain America take down a small tout?

The Jatakas mention stories where demons are assigned as per the strength of the man.

VI) So, here two things are happening.

1) Your strength and faith is being tested. So, if you don’t change and they do, it’s God’s victory. If you change it is God’s loss so don’t let him lose. If no one changes its still fine, it shows you have to refine your skills more and till you perform the desired number of conversations God would keep sending a bulk of same strength and kind in your way.

2) You are being used as a weapon of God to run his show. So, run it.

Remember in this world nothing is yours. You are merely using resources given to you by the God. So, have that much and a little enough for your weak flesh so that you can continuously keep doing his work.

Read the Bible, stories of Jatakas or Dhammapads or any book which can helpย  you focus on these points ina more vivid manner.

Light and rest to all!

Five years of learning

Rollercoaster ride on life & depression

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If you have come across other people, you might have come across as well with many depressed people over a lifetime.

I would call upon all to remember your situation and follow the below tips.

We talk about a lot of sins but I think the greatest sin of all, is to attempt terrorising people by wicked means.

Meanwhile i give you some points as example, things which can lead to depression.

Now, how can depression set in?

THE Rollercoaster ride in life fall out of balance?

Depression can set in when your mind is trained to think in a certain way, but it has to respond to challenges, so it forces itself to thinking in another way.

I would tell you how certain events could be very depressing and triggers but they won’t, if you are aware of them and the harm they can build around you.

In India and many other developing nations, being a woman and voicing anything against men is utterly a sin. Specially, if you deny anybody of any pleasure seeking activity.

Men have to understand that women can comply with wants, wishes of various kinds (even as small as accompanying a person to dinner or ๐Ÿด) only if she wants. She can like a man whom she marries, prefers to befriend (not forced friendships), or does any act of emoticons or develops any closeness or she may choose not to. She need not explain the society or the world what or why she prefers not to choose a person over someone else.

But, in India ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ people demand an explanation ridiculously, “you chose him, why not me?”

“It’s my personal life you need to scream your lungs out.”

The citizens must remember hooliganism is a good weapon but the world should not promote it as an universal weapon, a single spice mix to be used in all curries.

I) Some challenges

1) Change of place type like moving from a big to a small city or vice versa.

2) Getting across a wrong crowd- Well this is a huge trigger. Often, our job types and our surroundings are largely influential in the kind of people you are exposed to. Like being exposed to a crowd whose values are different from yours.

II) Workplace scenario.

Now, in a workplace, when you maybe trying to adjust,

1) You come across conspirators who are trying to replace you or trying to keep you, using a tactic which would make you more beneficial for them.

Rather than letting your original energy flow, they try to create an alternate energy flow within you.

2) You come to know that what little people you trusted, they were also a part of the same group. Trusted like friends, lets say. You allowed some handful of people to know you a bit.

3) Now, same thing happened to me. But, I could not leave the job, nor could I adjust to their purposes and to the people. So, I struggled through a job where there was a vast difference between the way people thought around me and the way I did.

4) Complaining generally,  is of no use. Since, that can trigger things to unnecessary and uncontrollable proportions.

5) Often staying out of a job is also not possible due to different issues.

Now, there is no way you can make the world believe what you say, and trust me they know how you are. But, they do it because they believe in the philosophy that:

If you tell a lie a thousand times that becomes a truth.

III) Now, see how we make errors in our life.

@) We underestimate the power of such people- Don’t underestimate the power they possess. They can turn a very good thinking crowd into believing because they can create stories. Our natural reflex to this phenomenon is fear initially. Now, this can cause you major harm if you do not control it.

@) Next is seeing the true intentions of people will shock you. This is another point where you can get depressed. So, the best thing to do is to let go of how people are.

You cannot control what they do, but you can control how you think.

@) Another way is exaggerating your personal life. If you smile at someone they say you flirted, if you talk to someone they say you tried crafty talks instead of telling the truth, if you sit with someone and have dinners and lunches you are dating those all people at one time, if any guy passes lewd comments or does some lewd gesture and you feel shocked then you responded to them and God forbid, you call someone your friend in error or exchanged gifts then you are their partners.

@) People know the power of immaturity thus they do not leave it because it serves their purpose and this is one purpose where the weapon of immaturity is used.

Ever facing such a scenario where you find such loose environmental ways of dealing with humanity.